Birthdays

Birthdays... There are so many birthdays round the corner... Even in my dept as well... N also in the office... Hmmmm... So many Nov babies... Hahah... Yep... Was just reading Meng's post on birthdays... ya, Meng was telling me that 2 of her friends fell out with each other some days before the bday... So sad... Haiz...

But even as we celebrate bdays, i begin to look back n think abt the attitudes we carried when we were younger... We were all fighting to do bday cards n plan bday celebrations for the ppl in the cg. Especially so for ppl who have touched our lives, spent time discipling us. We just want to be the one who plan the celebration, get the card done n present n do a great and memorable one for the person who have sowed into our lives.

Times have changed... And it's so sad.. The attitudes that our ppl carry now is so haiz... All shrinking responsibilities... It's always the same old ppl thinking of the celebration, making sure that everything runs smoothly... Card, cake, present all bought n practical... This is so sad... I cant help but think what I can do to bring back that attitude... THat willingness to serve... That love that we have for the ppl ard us... Why is it so hard to love ppl now? OR what has happened? This attitude is spreading... N it's bad... Real bad... Anyone out there have any remedy?

Love cannot be forced, Love is a decision and a choice. It is not easy. Cos u need to think of others at the expense of self. But love can change the world... Just like how God changed it. We can do it too... Just by loving a little more... A little more at a time... The world will be a better place... The ppl will love to come n join us... our cg... I'm sure of that. IF we all can just do our part to love a little more... ... ...