8 more days...

Yep yep... In 8 more days it'll be 10 years le...Amazing 10 years... We've gone on from being just friends to a couple planning for the future... We're discussing what our wedding will be like, which area to stay in, what kind of house, etc... Think topics have really changed... From just accompanying each other to run errands to now supporting each other in our pursuits of our dreams. From a couple who dunno who God is to a couple who are leaders in this history making church... Indeed this journey has not been easy, lots of challenges n temptations n confessions... But I thank God for this relationship as it has moulded me. My character today is greatly affected by this union. No doubt that our relationship has not come to a point where we light the unity candle, but I feel that this relationship will eventually lead to a marriage la... Hee... I believe n confess it... Hahaha...

One very impt thing abt relationship is trust n truth. Everything muz be shared. No secrets. Even wrong thoughts. You got to confess n repent. Make sure that u know the heartbeat of the other person. If u realise that through such interactions, the person's values are diff from yours, then it's time to end it. Such relationships will nvr end up well... Although we say that opposites attract, values muz be the same. The bible says, how can two walk together unless they agree. So similarly, if your vision, spiritual life, thought life are all different, then it's not possible for the relationship to work out. Yep...

Guys, need to have a vision... You're the man... The leader in a relationship. You lead the gal... So if u have no visions, then the gal following u will be doomed too... Also... Guys got to be gentleman la... Be the one who protects the gal... You're the MAN!!! So be a MAN la... Dun hide behind the gal expecting her to be the one leading the front... Be the leader. You are male by birth but man by choice!

Yep... So come early n book ur own seats la... Expect the gals to serve u?! U think u're some big shot? So sad today... Of the so many ppl who came early today... Ken was the only guy?! And the last ppl to arrive? Are all the guys lo... Haiz... BE a man la... U got to lead la... If you desire, Ken can train u up... Just tell him n e willing to change... Yes, changes!!!